Personally I avoid these theories where the blame falls on the mother. For gs I carried the 3 of them in pregnancy, they all look like their father, and there si no way DS could have inherited my brain else he wouldnt have had any issues :)
and yes, I was the best in maths at my age in my country, got a first in computer science even though I couldn't put a proper grammatically correct sentence in English when in uni, most in my family (well if not all
) are musicians, dh is the most gifted handyman according to clients with his own apd issues so according to the study DS is the perfect product, wondering what went ' wrong ' with ds2???