Firstly apologies for name changing but am wary of snooping LEAs and need not to give too much away at this stage.
So.... Long story but will try to be brief. Have finally got LEA to agree to assessment of SEN for dd. has taken 12 months. Was turned down originally this time round, but I appealed and LEA have backed down before we got to tribunal. During the process both the LEA and the school have behaved disgracefully and have sunk to such low tactics to try and make me give up, but I held out and have won the first small hurdle.
However I am well aware of that there are plenty more battles ahead.
Today however I returned home from work to find a letter from our local hospital with an appointment for DD with a paediatrician. I rang to check who had made the referral and as I suspected it had been requested by the LEA. I am firstly fuming that I wasnt consulted before they made the rewferral - surely they should tell me if they are going to make a referral????? Also I dont know what they hope to gain by it. DD has already had a 2 day multi-professional assessment which included a consultant paediatrician when she received her original diagnosis (asd) and has since seen the consultanat agin for a follow up appointment. This new app is in a diff district (due to complicated reasons )and so is with someone new, but also with a general paediatrician who will have littel experience with ASD, so not sure in the point in it. I could refuse to take her, but then LEA will use that against me. I am just so fuming right now. The LEA are just being so deliberately difficult and obstructive. I am so sick of this whole thing.
However I wont give up until I get what I want and every time the LEA sink to these tactics it just makes me more determined.
ANyway...sorry for long post, but really was wondering if anyone else has experienced similar. Is it reasonable that I am annoyed that LEA refferred her without my knowledge? Can I request she is referred to someone more suitable do you think? Or should it really be enough that they already have pages of medical reports????
Would greatly appreciate any responses , even to just cheer me up!