So bad that I can't cope with trying to figure out whether it's inspired by machavellian scheming or just plain incompetence. One target identifies an issue but the strategy is predominantly me sorting out home life; the other is a 'try harder' to overcome his main impairment.
DH simply doesn't 'get' it, and isnt interested in learning. I can't fight pink sugar-coated pseudo-sympathetic passive-aggressive bullshit any more, I might throw something if I try to meet the senco. I need to just sign this piece of crap, noting my true opinion in the margin for the benefit of any later audiences. Then bury my head in the sand and pretend everything's ok for a bit.
So I'm going to take a mnsn break, and see you all in a month or so. Hopefully with a cleaner house, sorted paperwork and a smaller backlog at work. I'll raise a glass offline tomorrow pm, I just didn't want to pop out without saying bye.