School have finally completed their part and I now have the assess clinicaly rated.
The clinical rating is formally rated by a professional in clinical psychiatry. It uses the DSM-IV & ICD-10 for diagnoses.
Overall it says the assessment strongly suggests that DS is on the autism spectrum, as in....Autism, tourettes, adhd (combined) plus other anxiety and other distruptive (as in PDA).
Helloooo mummy isnt a bad parent after all. Is now armed and ready for action. AGAIN 