Can anyone give me guidance on the results meeting for ADOS?
DS1 (4.5) had this in September, at which I was present. He didn't "perform" well at this, and did exhibit several typical ASD behaviours (turning head away and refusing to play with puzzles he didn't like, and getting upset when given dolls and furniture to play with etc)
Afterwards, I asked the Dev Paed and SALT who were both present what they think of ABA therapy. Paed shook her head, hasn't heard of it
however SALT said that she knows nothing about it, but I should not do ABA as "it will stop working if you stop doing it"
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I have received a letter with an appointment in a couple of weeks at which 8 professionals will be present: Paed, 2 x SALTs, head teacher, class teacher, TA, Preschool Home Visitor (well qualified, ex teacher with MSc in Special Needs and Early Years) and Parent Support person.
Not one of these people has particularly heard of, or experienced ABA.
Several of them have told me to avoid silly and expensive miracle cures like Son Rise etc, offered to desperate parents on the internet. Apparently ABA is one of these... 
I find this really quite insulting TBH. As far as I can see, ABA stands up well to research etc, and it does not purport to be a cure, simply a strategy for behavioural modification.
Ideally I would like to quote research papers on the efficacy of ABA - but am not sure where to get these (have tried Lancet and PubMed with limited success)
As all these people will have a bearing on DS's education in differing ways, I would like to use this meeting as a springboard to getting him ABA paid for by the LEA (in Scotland here, where there are no ABA schools
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DS is a friendly, affectionate little boy, who would respond very well, very quickly, to even a small amount of ABA, or ABA for a short time.
Can anyone offer advice on what to say at this meeting?