Not looking for a flaming here or accusations of not wanting to cooperate with school, just genuinely not knowing the way SEN etc works and wanting the best for my DD.
DD is 14 and in the first term of a new secondary school. New school is very hot on pastoral care, very aware that old school allowed DD to be horribly bullied and that the LA broke the law by refusing to place her in a school for months so I suspect that they are even more anxious to do their best. So far very pleased with them.
I'm in the process (slowly) of putting together supporting documents for a recent SEN application - part of this being that DD has a very slow handwriting speed and poor spelling though she's tested to be average/above average in intellect. I'm pretty sure that the handwriting/spelling are far more likely to be due to be a result of her not being educated for months and months thanks to the LA, together with being HE in the past without an emphasis on written work (which would've been fine and evened itself out over time had I not been ill and had to send her back into the state system). I don't know this though of course, hence adding it to my SEN application for their assessment and conclusion.
On Friday I received an email from the examinations officer saying that they have someone coming in to assess for extra time in exams and controlled assessment and would like to include my DD in this.
That's great BUT I'm a bit concerned that this might be a sticking plaster approach. I'm pretty convinced that it's down to education and not a medical condition and that both can be improved upon tremendously with the right tuition and am happy to work with school, coach at home etc to achieve that. My fear is that if she has this extra time the school will consider that they've done their bit and that's that. Certainly when the suggestion that extra time "might be a possibility" was mooted in the old school they made it clear that this was all they would even consider offering.
Does anyone have an experience of this please? I'm in the middle of composing my reply, politely saying pretty much what I have here (without reference to the old school at all!) and asking for further advice and reassurance about my concerns, cc-ing to both the SENCO and Pastoral Support Teacher ... is that an acceptable response do you think?
The other thing is that the email was worded that the school " would like to include DD" in the assessment for extra time. Does that mean that they need my permission? I'm happy to grant it but don't want to look like a snooty, condescending cow by doing so if they don't need it!
Thanks ever so much.
DBF