Devient, thanks for the response, can you please tell me what happens regarding the school refusal?
I am getting questioned by the educational welfare, thought I would pre empt things after all the threats last time, of fines, courts/prison etc... in a way that is leading to it being my fault in some kind of way, they are ignoring the physical condition dd has, and they are totally going hell for leather for the emotional stuff, apparently it is also my fault that the gp has not managed to get camhs appoimtent despite me asking for about a year due to school refusal!
The person who is insisting on dealing with the issue at school is a nasty piece of work, who I had a run in two years ago with the oldest, and has done something else to me and oldest at the end of last year when I for the second time needed to have contact with that school. He is blocking me again, this time from speaking to anyone else and I don't want to deal with him, he is bad news! I actually was so concerned about him I made a point of telling my kids to ensure they were never left a lone in a room with him, and have never said that about any other teacher, he is setting off abusive man radar big time!
So a week tomorrow and as the school is an academy now and the school and the ed welfare are doing nothing.... I can see this all causing a bomb to go off, and me being blamed!
I am in a very vounerable position, a single parent (abusive ex not on scene and would love to help them destroy me if he got the chance) and I have physical disability and anxiety and depression at times, related to the hell that I had to live for a few yeas with ex and my health problems.