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TV COMPANY SEEKS INSPIRATIONAL MUMS FOR C5 SCIENCE SERIES

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ABAinamanger · 03/12/2005 18:05

I received the following info this week. I also wonder if she might be interested in parents who, since their child's dx have found out that they are on the spectrum too (Jenk1, MrsF?). It looks interesting anyway:

TV COMPANY SEEKS INSPIRATIONAL MUMS FOR C5 SCIENCE SERIES

I was hoping you could help me. I am currently developing a TV documentary idea about families who have more than one child suffering from Autism or other conditions such as ADHD, Dsypraxia and Aspergers. The programme will be part of a series of sensitive one hour films for C5 Science each one charting a family as they deal with the challenges of bringing up children with different medical conditions. The series will also aim to raise the profile of these various disorders and explain more about what its like to live with them on a day to day basis.

As part of this, I was wondering whether anyone would be interested in talking to me about their family's experiences. In particular, I'd like to speak to mothers to find out what life is like from their perspective. Mums are often the ones who bear the brunt of the stress - having to cope with the daily challenges this condition brings, fighting to get medical help as well as trying to care for other family members. We hope these films will be inspirational for viewers as we tell the stories of ordinary women from all around the country who show great strength in the face of adversity, courageously dealing with their children's difficulties, often having to fight an uphill battle with social workers and the medical profession.

At the moment I am hoping to talk to parents with a view to filming a short taster tape in the next few weeks. The film will not be broadcast at this stage and will take just a few hours of your time. It may be that two of your children have Autism or two or three of your children have very different conditions. Perhaps you or your partner are suffering from a condition yourself and find it hard to juggle everyone's needs. Either way, if you or anyone you know would be willing to talk about their experiences or would like to find out more, please call Kate on 0207 7493132 or email [email protected] All conversations are confidential and there is no commitment at this stage.

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MrsFrostgetful · 03/12/2005 19:00

Davros...i have shed a few tears reading this....it made me feel 'good' to know you thought of me.

this is something that really appeals to me as a concept...but scares me shitless when i think of the reality!!!!

however i am going to contact them and see what happens....

'IF' i'm right.... then in our home alone...forget the 'extended family that show characteristics....'......well there's....

TOM diagnosed adhd at 7 and AS at 9
Leigh diagnosed AS at 8

Hubby is def 'active but odd'...with a son from 1st marriage diagnosed adhd/AS....

ME.....the more i learn...the more comfort i get from identifying with AS/ADHD as probably why i am constantly under the wings of mental health care...and the more i can explain why i felt the square peg in the round hole all my childhood...but as an adult...SINCE my son's diagnosis etc...realising that many startegies that i am reading about I had been 'self learning/trying' as a teenager/young adult....also feeling less 'guilty' about the struggle i have always had holding a job....i get DLA now and am planning to try extending my learning...to enable me to put what i have learned about AS etc into practice...as i believe taht a job involved with AS etc...would be a job i would see not as work but as therapy. (i currently have been training as a volunteer facilitator for a SN parents support group...and it is through this that i have realised that there is some work i could do ...instead of the panic i feel about 'normal' work....for years i have been labeled lazy.now i am being reconised as having a skill worth contributing)

And then theres alex who i am sure is on the spectrum...currently identified by school as having poor attention....poor sequencing ... and recently has been grabbing peoples faces to make them face him when he speaks...cannot accept being spoken to unless you are facing him...over intense eye contact etc....and drives me mad at the moment as if i'm stood up he will turn my whole body to face him....and trivial that it is.,....it's constant...and i hate to admit...irritates me.

The hardest thing i find really for me (assuming i am an undiagnosed AS etc)...is that i am so easily distracted too...yet can over focus too....both to extremes.... so i am sensitive to every tiny rustle/creak/hiss /drip etc....enoughto take me right off track...if i am distracted from what i am doing i am unlikelyto remember until foe example it is obvious...ie the tea is burnt or the bath floods....i also get so involved (all or nothing) in somthing that it triggers OCD behaviours as i try to not be so engrossed i try to distract to alternative activity...but at the moment i am drowning in it all.

so thanks davros.... i will try to be brave and pluck up courage.....

jenk1 · 03/12/2005 19:06

Thanks, i have emailed her, i dont know if we are what she is looking for but we shall see!

I,ll let you know if i hear anything back.

jenk1 · 03/12/2005 19:07

wondered who this was

Just seen that its you Davros!

MrsFrostgetful · 03/12/2005 19:21

have emailed her...warning her that i am a non-stop chatterbox...!

coppertop · 03/12/2005 21:25

Good luck to you both.

Maybe we'll get to see a "MrsF: The Documentary" after all!

MrsFrostgetful · 03/12/2005 22:18

MUST ADMIT...I DID THINK OF OUR OLD CONVERSATIONS COPPERTOP!!!!

coppertop · 03/12/2005 22:20

It's fate, MrsF. You can't fight it.

MrsFrostgetful · 03/12/2005 22:59

what's even more bizarre.... is today it's TOMs 12th birthday...and the email adress that davros gave for the woman doing this programme is refers to monkeys...which we affectionally call tom!!!

coppertop · 05/12/2005 11:07

A late "Happy Birthday!" to Tom. I feel like an old woman for saying this but I can't believe he's 12 already!

itllbelonelythisdavros · 05/12/2005 12:21

I'm pleased you've both contacted her. Don't forget you old MN friends when you are famous! Get us parts as extras

coppertop · 05/12/2005 12:32

Yes, we can be your official hangers-on.

jenk1 · 06/12/2005 09:47

Had an email off the lady asking for my tel no!!!

coppertop · 06/12/2005 11:45

Sounds exciting, Jenk. Good luck!

Ahhh, that Jenk. I knew her back in her mumsnet days before she was famous....

MrsFrostgetful · 06/12/2005 21:20

have you rung her jenk....or shall we email her our telephone numbers!!!????

funny really...part of me wants to chat to her when the house is empty/silent...but the other would like it to be the normal riot of noise....as i am sure she would get a true picture without me saying a word!!!

jenk1 · 06/12/2005 21:22

ive emailed my tel number as i am too chicken to phone her myself!!!!!!!

MrsFrostgetful · 11/01/2006 23:19

yes...i guess i did PUT THEM OFF...as heard nothing more since my 90 minute phone chat!!!
anyone else???

apparently tv cameras were filiming a family near me (adhd kids)...so wonder if that is connected!!!? (i know that family ....very complex...so could be for this programme)

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