Just a quick update after a meeting with a local Councilor (who it turns out was the cabinet officer for transport some 8 year back).
To be honest it wasn't that helpful, first the Councilor said the reason for the rule of bays not provided for parents, is that they would only be able to be used with the children (or blue badge holders) in the car and that if the parents parked in the space without the children, they would be breaking the law.
It was then quickly clarified that actually, there is no such 'law' and that these spaces were actually courtesy spaces and anyone could 'legally' park in them.
The Councilor acknowledged he was aware of there being a parking problem, as he recently tried to implement a permit parking scheme, however this never got past the consultation stage as it met so much local opposition.
He said that we could legally park in the middle (of our somewhat narrow busy road) in order to get the children out, but this simply isn't a viable solution as not only would it anger and obstruct other drivers, but it simply wouldn't be safe for my children and doesn't help getting them to the car in the mornings when we have had to park some distance away.
When other local authoritys that do offer bays to parents and carers was mentioned, he replied that not all did (which is correct, but not really the point) and that many others charged to make them traffic enforcable, maybe £100 to set up and £10 a year. Of course the reply to that was, that wouldn't be a great issue, as what price do we put on the safety of our children?
The long and short of it is, after a lengthy discussion, he suggested that we write to the local authority and explain our circumstances and ask if there is some sort of dispentation or appeal process (which he didn't think there was). He then went on to say, that if by some chance we did get a courtesy bay offered, that it probably wouldn't do us much good and we should ask for an traffic enforcable space, which was even more unlikely for us to be granted.
I don't feel we are any further forward and I had hoped that the Councilor, with their job to be to represent their constituents, may have offered to assist and even represent our case to the powers that be. However that isn't the case.
My next plan of action, is to write a detailed letter to the transport office, acknowledging that according to their guidelines we can't apply, however listing our extenuating circumstances and asking them to show discretion and special dispensation because of our genuine need and the real safety issue (this is an issue of safety rather than mere convenience).
Depending on the response to that letter, we will be seeking an appointment at my local MP's constituent surgery and asking if she can offer us any support and even represent our request with the local authority.
I don't think there is much more we can do, until I fire off this letter to the transport department (I am going to CC it to the Councils cabinet member of transport also) and hear back from them with their decision and reasons either way.
However, if any of you have any other advice or suggestions, I would be pleased to hear them and if anyone else has a bay provided and wouldn't mind telling me what local authority you live in, I would very much appreciate it.