hiya donna here just to let you all know i didnt get my results today as planned (regarding if our baby has downs) hopefully get them on monday tuesday at the latest and me and hubs had along chat and weve both agreed that if this amnio dosnt work as the dithering doctor got my blood in the sample we just gonna carry on with this pregnancy and what will be will be and not opt for another amnio i think because he saw me go through it helped him come to terms with everything so whatever problems this baby has were gonna deal with them you all have helped me so much although im pissed off now not knowing the fact hubby and me have sorted things makes it more bearable will let you know when i do get results and might even know what sex we having we have 3 girls so far so we all placing bets lotsa love to you all and speak soon ps has anyone got older children who have had a brother or sister with ds? as my 13 yr old cant handle it well