I have come to realise recently that my huge desire for DS2 to talk has led to me neglecting his receptive language needs
. He is 8.5, severely autistic with SLD (so very different, I know, from the children talked about on the language delay threads). He uses single words and the occasional phrase (usually learnt as a phrase and not put together creatively) mainly to request. He is beginning to use language to comment, but this is still very infrequent. He understands language about familiar domestic routines, knows the names of the people he sees often and can follow instructions like ' Give the keys to Daddy'. He understands 'sad', 'happy' and 'angry', but very few other concepts at all. Still can't recognise the names of colours (though he can match colour to colour), or reliably pick out 'big' and 'small' and doesn't show a firm grasp of 'on, under, over' etc. Has no apparent understanding of time, though he does know the order of events in a school day, for example. He understands questions like ' Who's/what's that?' but not 'what', 'why' or how questions. 'I think he knows what 'Where is...?' means, but doesn't respond by looking for the item!
So my question to those of you who have helped your children to make progress in understanding language is - where would you start? What was most useful for your children?
TIA