My ds has a close friend aged 6. He's a lovely big hearted little boy who just goes off the deep end sometimes. We've known him since he was born and his mother (a good friend of mine too) is really struggling as he often refuses to eat, and if he does it's very little. He also throws tantrums like a toddler, where he won't listen to anyone, works himself up into a screaming, red rage, throwing himself around, and is a danger to himself (tearing off down the street, crossing the road without looking for instance). Have never posted on here before, but really hope someone could give advice on whether he should be tested by someone. He's had hearing problems, but think these have been more or less resolved. He's also doing OK at school.