DD (3 with severely delayed/disordered language, sensory processing issues, APD) has just started at our local council nursery. they are very supportive and proactive re DD's needs. she has an IEP and is on EYA+.
the problem is, the nursery place is only for 15h/week. ATM, I am on maternity leave with DC2 which will run out in 4 month time - so for the time being, we are fine with the 15 hours she received as I am at home.
problem is, I don't know what to do once I have to return to work. I will need childcare for about 30 hours/week (I do part time).
before starting her new nursery, DD had been attending a private nursery. this place (with loads of hindsight) failed her terribly. they completely refused to acknowledge that DD has additional needs (I admit, I wasn't pushing for things enough either
) and therefore, didn't offer any extra help for her. suppose it was much easier for them to take our money and not bother about anything else (DD is very withdrawn and shy but never aggressive and disruptive, so didn't cause disruption at nurseryand it was easy to ignore her/her difficulties IYSWIM).
I am now really at loss as to what to do. where do I send DD1? she clearly needs a place that can support her. I wish I could just give up work but this isn't an option at all. my family lives quite far away and I only see them twice a year. so they can't help either?
any advise would be highly appreciated.