God, he was young! 
Anyway, he thanked me for my 4 page document which he had read!!
Ds1 is being referred to the EP, OT and SALT.
He asked me what I thought ds1's problems were....I told him. He agrees that dyslexia and dyspraxia are likely and APD. Didnt really agree wrt asd BUT ds1 did nothing asd-ish whislt there - then the minute we left the building was prancing on tip toe and hand flapping...sigh.
He is sending us and the SENCO a questionairre - GUARD (sp???) to fill in to see how high he scores for asd traits so thats something I guess.
He has recommended we continue with the RRT and AIT (which we would anyway) and we are going back in august. Just need to let school know whats happening.
Feel a bit strange 