Not sure if anyone else agrees but..... I was brought up short by one of the professionals a few weeks ago, for referring to my son's dx as ASD. The woman had a look of (firstly) horror and then pity on her face as she explained to me, the thick parent, that "we do not refer to Autistic Spectrum Disorder now, we feel it is derogatory. We now say "Autistic Spectrum Condition".
I felt a right fool.
I felt like saying.....doesn't really matter what you call it, it means second class citizen. Giving it a more PC name won't stop the days centres closing; open more vital special schools/colleges; train more TA's; finance more autism outreach workers; provide more speech and language resources; stop the constant battle for appropriate services/DLA/mobility.
Gets on my wick!