(crossposted in Children's health)
help please, looking for advice from mums of epileptic children. Yesterday we went to a restaurant with DD1 (6.5 months), she was lying in her buggy looking up at the lights and it suddenly seemed to me as if the lights were having a scary effect on her, she was staring at them and twitching, it didn't look right to me. It scared me and I insisted we take her on our lap. DH thought I am imagining things, and we put her back down a while later but again it didn't look right to me and I took her back on my lap. Today it also seemed like sometimes she was shaking and tensing her muscles in a weird way at home. She just started rolling over though so what I saw today also could just be her practising her muscles.
What calmed me down was that I thought there was no family history of epilepsy on either side so it couldn't be. As I told DH again today though that I thought her movements looked weird to me, he told me as if it was a funny anecdote that he once had a seizure in front of an old TV as a child, from the light while switching channel on a very old Soviet Union TV (he's from the ex Soviet Union). I don't think where he is from they are aware what that means... but that means he has epilepsy, right? Apparently he only had this one seizure in his life. But does this mean he could have passed on some photosensitive trait to our DD?
As I am not even sure it was a seizure or if I am imagining, should I go to the GP about this or are they going to think I am a paranoid first time mum? any thoughts? is this dangerous?