Hi Foxy... we're at a similar stage of the dv process. ds1 is under paeds and awaiting his OT appointment. Paeds are sending him for blood tests to rule out metabolic problems but did say it's highly unlikely.
Luckily ds1 was in brilliantly odd humour the day we were at the hospital (little sod was the picture of and angelic normal child during his previous assessment by the school medical officer so I was starting to panic that no HCP would ever see the unusual behaviour that's driving us and the school to distraction!)
He's extremely clumsy, uncoordinated, can't pedal well, only started drawing anything recognisable a few months ago and now repeatedly draws the same 2/3 simplistic pictures over and over again, he never crawled as a baby and still struggles to do so, he's easily distressed, finds new routines difficult and needs a long time to process information. He repeats words or phrases he's heard (often the last word of a telling off which is a sure fire way to drive me completely mad), he often speaks far too loudly or in an odd baby voice. He has trouble with instructions and listening and is very easily distracted.
There's loads more tbh... the printed A4 list i hand HCP's is almost 2 pages long.
A lot of his traits on paper sound quite like ADHD and the SMO did want him assessed for that but I'm fairly convinced it's not (whilst he can be very giddy and hyper he can also be the laziest sod you've ever met and is far less active than my other two children) and it turned out due to some odd local structuring he couldn't be on the list for OT and Psyche at the same time anyway and I asked for OT to be a priority.
Good luck with you dd... hope the appointment goes well.
dolfrog thanks for that link... looking forward to having a sift through tomorrow