We are halfway through the Statementing Process and the proposed Statement was due yesterday (no sign of it yet)
DS is 3.3, ASD (I think the milder end but not HF), has emerging speech. I initiated the Request myself and so far so smooth. DS is in a private specialist nursery miles away and I have been aiming for local maintained ASD special school and LEA know this and are sending proposed Statement to this SS to see if they can meet DS's needs. We are all singing from the same song sheet.
When I saw the SALT input into the Statement during the evidence collection stage I immediately realised the content of the proposed Statement would be weak so hired a private SALT assessment. I have done the same for OT but did not bother with a Private EP as did not believe I would be fighting for the placement (section 4) just the needs and provision (sections 2 & 3 )
Private SALT (who I was v pleased with) shook my world yesterday at assessment when she said she believed DS to have a differential diagnosis of SLi/ASD and she feels that the emphasis should be on the SALT not the ASD as he is easy to transition and seems to have have good cognitive function. She said that to place him in a SS where his peer group are more profoundly autistic rather than in a S&L school who could manage milder autism could have a serious impact on him.
She advised we urgently get a private EP on board to get the school right (is this what EP's do ?).
In my head I was going to get Statementing all wrapped up by summer and now it looks like are are heading in a Tribunal direction (though LEA do not know this yet). This has all really thrown me
Firstly, do I stand a hope in hell of getting my LEA to pay for SS out of borough when they have an ASD SS in borough - is it worth the fight ?
Secondly, what is the best way to win a Tribunal - whose opinions carry the most weight ? Is it the EP or a good lawyer (we have a first meeting with ours next week) or the whole team ?
Thirdly, how does it work when the Statementing Process is stopped in its tracks by the parent changing their mind over the school - is there a new timetable or a specified process that I can refer to ? I've been sat with my CoP timetable in hand all the way through but that only applies if the process runs smoothly with no appeals etc
Very grateful for any advice - I am sure my post is boring and overly detailed but it is causing me the most enormous amount of stress this end. I feel like I am floundering again having got my footing over the last 3 months