Okay I have got Noah my fourth child and he is hard work but some children are hard work aren't they and I as a poarent expect this.
He never loves me though or puts his hands up to be cuddled though at that worries me. He has a dummy and although only has it while tired and at night if I take it away as hate them he scremas and goes hyasterical (not too worried about this)
He has to come down stairs when wakes and he has to sit down in the same place with his blanket just so. Even when poorly he never likes to be cuddled but I also know some children are aindependent.
He does make eye contact and he does play. He does hit and sctach other children but this is more with my grandson when he is in the house. He goes to play group and they ahve not mentioned anything.
Other things are he goes mad if I cahnge is car seat in the car to a different seat (have seven seats). he LIKE SINGING BUT ALWAYS WANTS THE SAME SONGS PLAYING OVER AND over again and he would listen to it all afternoon.
He does speak though and speaks well and if i ask him to get something he understands well.
He cires lots more so than any of my freinds childrens although he is just two.
He feeds himself wel but a very very poor eater. He does have lots of ear and throat infections though.
It was my frriend and my eldest daughter at twenty that suggested i MENTION TO THE dR.He goes to bed at 7 but wakes regular in the night. I do find him hard and very demanding and i have been a childminder with lots of draining also for the past five years so I am not silly in my thinking...
My question is what sign should i be looking for in a just two year old please
Thanks in advance