Hello everyone. Have just started the process of requesting a formal assessment for DD. She is 4.4 and due to start school in September. The educational pyschologist has said she is mild ASD and will not get a classroom assistant however her nursery teacher says she needs to have an adult with her at all times of the day to assist with every aspect eg not toilet trained will nip and hit other children if they touch her, cannot feed herself properly and to get her to understand and remain focused. My worry is if the educational pyschologist is saying she is mild and doesn't need help will that mean our application will get filed in the bin? She is trying to put us off applying and told us we must follow the various stages and not jump a stage!! We have so far compiled a detailed letter with all DD issues have a report from SALT and from her nursery, haven't seen educational pysch reprt as yet and I was hoping to go and meet head teacher and ask him to write a report saying he does not have resources to meet our requirements. When I send this off should I accompany it with a solicitors letter as well. Any advice / tips on how to successfully get an assessment/ statement welcome I am still reeling and in shock and worried sick.