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EABG conference

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cornwallia · 15/04/2011 00:01

Anyone going to this in London next week?

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sickofsocalledexperts · 15/04/2011 14:36

I am, or at least to part of it!

cornwallia · 15/04/2011 22:01

Oh, good. Are you going to Weds with Carl Hughes?

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sickofsocalledexperts · 16/04/2011 13:39

No, only Monday!

cornwallia · 16/04/2011 20:12

That's a shame!

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StarlightMcKenzie · 17/04/2011 00:28

cornwallia,

If there is any chance I can get myself organised on Monday and there are spaces (Dad's funeral was yesterday) then I'll be going on Wednesday.

moondog · 17/04/2011 17:16

Highly highly recommended everybody, particularly the workshop by Carl.Truly a one off chance to learn some very important concrete ways of helping your children.

Hope that you get there Star.
Cornwallia, what will you be going to finally?

dolfrog · 17/04/2011 18:22

Experimental Analysis of Behaviour Group (EABG)
Invited Speakers for 2011

cornwallia · 17/04/2011 18:54

Hoping to go to Wednesday's session. Need to sort out DH working at home for the day!

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moondog · 17/04/2011 19:31

Report back will you? Smile

cornwallia · 17/04/2011 19:56

Will do! Star - PM me if you are going. I have name changed but we have chatted about this with Moondog before.

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StarlightMcKenzie · 20/04/2011 18:23

I have just been floored.

And that is really all I can say about it right now until I can process it a bit better!

Except that to be in a room full of professionals who KNOW what the feck they are doing, and just as important know what they DON'T know, has had an emotional effect on me that has taken me by surprise, particularly after my last couple of years.

moondog · 20/04/2011 18:32

I knew it would hence me hounding you lot to go!
Tell us all about it!

I have received quite a few missives from people who were presenting who appeat to be/have been somwhat under the influence! Grini

cornwallia · 20/04/2011 18:36

Yes, please, please share everything. I couldn't make it and I'm gutted to have missed it. Bloody Easter holidays and DH's work.

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StarlightMcKenzie · 20/04/2011 18:37

I told them all that you ordered me there moondog!

They found it funny but not altogether unbelievable.

moondog · 20/04/2011 18:39

I gather you met my mate B.
Any others?
Did you meet Carl?
Did you go to the PT workshop?

StarlightMcKenzie · 20/04/2011 18:43

Yes, yes, yes and yes! Plus the Top Dog of HS who also sat in on the PT.

StarlightMcKenzie · 20/04/2011 18:44

sorry, corn.

The Top Dog of Head Sprout, sat in on the Precision Training with us.

moondog · 20/04/2011 18:45

Ah yes, Janet.
She is ace.

moondog · 20/04/2011 18:45

What did you think of the PT training?
I think Mike did it with Carl didn't he?

StarlightMcKenzie · 20/04/2011 18:52

Yes. They were brilliant I thought. Sent us all off with a little individual project to practise too. I thought they were really good together, bounced of each other and kept the day amusing.

C was worried at one point that I was looking a bit startled, but I was okay, just trying to take it in. The trouble is, you learn one small thing - and then with a teeny amount of imagination you can see far, far reaching implications and applications and it's a bit overwhelming. And at the same time, you're trying to learn the logic and the structure of the charts.

It's not complicated, not really, but it's not a 'thing' to learn, it's a fecking great doorway into another world, and that hurts your head.

moondog · 20/04/2011 18:54

Absolutely, it is like stepping from black and white into colour.
I spend my entire life training hundreds of people how to do this and you know what? They love it.

Really glad you got there. Hope it gave you a boost after all the bad times you've been through. Smile

StarlightMcKenzie · 20/04/2011 19:51

I think what I would need support with for ds though, is with some kind of curriculum.

He's been through the VB-Mapp and a couple of other curriculums and I'm struggling with what next.

I mean, what next is social skills, and vocabulary for the topics at school, but without the school refusing to engage with me for either I'm a little bit stuck.

Not completely. I'll get clues and ideas. HS is currently taking care of his reading for the moment though (although it was pointed out to me that 85% was far too low per episode).

StarlightMcKenzie · 20/04/2011 22:57

I couldn't make the Monday, which was a shame but on the Tues I got to listen to lots of research that is going on around Europe, particularly on social skills development. Lots to do there.

TBH, and I'm not just saying this, the most moving talks were the ones that I believe Moondog was involved in. Perhaps they were interesting to me because they were the most closely aligned to my interests i.e. having a young child with difficulties but I think it was more than that.

What struck me more than anything about the presenters, was that their work was so much more than research. These people truly, genuinely cared, and they cared about that ONE child that they happened to be talking about or working with at that time, as if they had given birth to them themselves. And that child or children were at the heart of their work and the centre of their thoughts when they were working with them.

I cannot stress how strongly that came across.

When you're used to platitudes and fobb offs and circular meetings held by people who tell you that they have your child's best interests at heart, without having ever met them, and who imply that you are asking for the moon simply by asking for something tangible ocassionally, it can make you quite hysterical to learn that the people out there that are NOT like that are more than a hope, myth or ideal and they are really working with live children.

cornwallia · 20/04/2011 23:37

"that child or children were at the heart of their work and the centre of their thoughts when they were working with them".

Wow, wouldn't that be a nice world to live in. It makes you feel angry to see that things could be very different if the system was different.

"working with live children" Shock- well that is asking for too much, really, it is. Who needs to do that if you've got a box of tricks and read a book on autism back in 1998.

God, I am so peed off that I missed this. Post more or PM me with anything you might feel is of interest - research references, concrete examples I can use, would love to hear more about the social skills stuff. Please!!

Some of you guys could run your own course for us mumsnetters you know -Moondog, you, Agnes, Silver...you have so much to teach us and we are desperate to learn

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tryingtokeepintune · 21/04/2011 01:10

Yes, like cornwallia said - please post more.

Did anyone go to the FBA and challenging behaviour workshop?

Any pointers on where to go to read up on what was presented at the conference for those of us who missed it?