H,i I just read your post and although I am not in Oxon I just wanted to tell you about my son, as it may help. He had speech and language disorders (expressive and receptive) diagnosed by an excellent nursery teacher when he was 3 and a half. He had SL therapy all through his primary years which helped him to work round his problem, but nothing seemed to get to the route of it. In year 5 I was told about a place in Lewes called the Listening Centre - they have a website, just google them - and, at my wits end decided to give it a go. It has turned out to be the best thing I ever did. I was extremely skeptical about it, the therapy is based on the Tomasis method which originated in France (and was used by Gerard Depardieu among others) and involves a specially modified listening device which retrains the ear to hear particular frequencies - its all to do with whether you are left or right ear dominant (left bad, right good).
I know what you're thinking! mumbo jumbo quacksville - I thought the same, before and even during his treatment. Frankly its a pain in the neck to go through as it involves listening to this device 6 days a week for two weeks, then a few weeks break, then 7 days, then a few weeks break and then a final 7 days. However it has been SO worth it. My son said to me on the train to Lewes for his final treatment that he could actually hear his teachers properly for the first time. I couldn't believe it, I also noticed him actually joining in conversations with his older brother and his friends with confidence for the first time in his life. He is now a confident, happy, socially active 15 year old who is in most of the top sets at his mainstream comprehensive, loves English and we have been told he is a great candidate for A level. This was entirely unthinkable at primary school. I realise all this sounds too good to be true, but I just want as many people as possible to look into this method. It does cost money - the initial consutation is £60 and our whole treatment cost almost £2,000 but it was the best money we ever spent, we also spent a small fortune on SL therapists over the years, some of whom were great. The method can apparently help for all sorts of problems from dyslexia and depression to autism and cerebral palsy. I think there is also a Listening Centre in north London now using the same method, which used to just be aimed at actors and musicians but is now teating children and adults with these disorders.
I've just read this back, andI know this sounds like an ad for the place, but I can't tell you how this has changed my son's life (and mine) after all those years of struggling with EPs the statementing nightmare and hours of tantrums and behaviour issues. So many times I cried on my own and felt like a failure and was so sad about the unfairness and uncertainty of his future. I still worry about him, it's hard to shake the habit, but I've just had his parents' evening and it was so normal it made me want to cry... for good reasons! Please just look at the website and give them a call and if it works for you tell your friends. It should be made available to everyone.
Good luck.