Was just on another thread discussing the veggie omega oil supplements that I started the whole family on just under a fortnight ago and realised I should share it with everyone here.
We are all veggies, so couldn't do fish oils - quite apart from which I know for a fact I'd never get ds1 to go near, let alone eat them. We used to buy a veggie omega oil blend when the boys were toddlers and it definitely helped with mood and sleep issues and if we missed a dose or two we really knew about it. (We were unaware that ds had ASD at this point, I was just trying to give them a properly balanced veggie diet). We had to stop buying it, because the cost became prohibitive for us.
Recently I was reading again about the importance of essential fatty acids for good health and how veggies tend to be very depleted, as even if they have an excellent diet, the form of EFA available in vegetarian food is not easy for the body to metabolise. The new supplements come from tank grown algae rather than flax/linseed and contain a balanced blend of all the necessary omegas that are easy for the body to metabolise.
Anyhoo, the outcome was I bought some of this stuff on their 3 for 2 offer and resolved to try it on all of us for at least two months.
We are now a couple of weeks in and I have already noticed a difference, particularly the dcs. I think the effect might be more dramatic, because we were all so depleted beforehand.
The first thing I noticed was that ds1 is going to sleep more quickly (cue him making a liar of me on his school trip, as I've told them he will be awake for hours after everyone else and will be awake by 5.30 am not matter what time he goes to sleep
).
I have also noticed that he is calmer and more emotionally stable and resilient. He has handled the whole bullying thing so much better this time. Two weeks ago after an incident he was in meltdown all Friday night and pretty much all weekend, this time he was very upset for a couple of hours, then it was over and done with and he has talked calmly about it since.
He has been asking me for cuddles!
This is a biggie, he did ask for one about three weeks ago and I remember wondering if he was having some sort of developmental leap, but this is so much more. I daren't say it, but we are almost seeing an emergence of the gentle sweet boy we used to have before he started school. Obviously its not all that, but we are seeing lots of glimpses and there is so much more affection that there has ever been.
As for the rest of us:
I have been really tired, but not suffering from the muscle aches and bone aching exhaustion that tends to accompany stress due to my CFS. What with all the IEP, Statementing and bullying stress, this is extremely unusal.
I have achieved more around the house in the last week than I have in the whole of the previous month.
An added bonus is that my skin looks so much better and has lost that dull, tired effect you get when you have been stressed and exhausted.
Dh has suddenly lifted out of his bad tempered, mid-life crisis, depressive mood and is back to smiling - laughing even - teasing me and the kids
and being able to focus on his work.
Ds2's (6) chalazion (infected cyst in his eyelid) sponaneously popped and drained on its own in the middle of his literacy homework. He has never been able to get rid of these without heavy, repeated doses of anti-biotics before.
Dd (2 yrs 2 months) seems to have made a small leap in her cognitive skills and is suddenly getting the difference between me, you and I as well as understanding more complex instructions.
Now a lot of this might be coincidental and it could be that I'm only noticing some of it because I'm looking - but its enough for me to be convinced that continuing with the supplements is a good idea.
The best thing about them is that the are tasteless and odourless, unlike the fish oil. I split and add one capsule to the dc's vitamin syrup in the morning and then they have a second one mixed into a yoghurt after school. None of them have even noticed its in there. 
Anyway, I just thought I would share it with you all, as I know some of you are struggling to get fish oils into your dcs and it does seem that this might be a genuinely viable alternative. 