Hi,
I have had a few threads on here, and feel I have had better support and advice from MN, than any professional we have dealt with so far, so I'm again asking for some advice.
DS2 was dx with ASD nearly 3 weeks ago now. having good NHS SALT, getting 'support' from specialist early years service (SEYS) in my area. DS is on their lowest level of support-monitoring-as they don't have the resources to offer more. The pead felt DS would be HFA but as he is only 3.7 now, we will see how he develops. SEYS have done an IEP for private nursery to follow, although nursery good and supportive they are not specialists in SN at all, and his IEP was reviewed by SEYS this week (3 5 min targets) and he has not met these. He will start school in sept. We also had a meeting with the school this week, headteacer, SENCO, SEYS and myself. School want DS to have statement (obv want the funding but they feel he will need some 1-2-1 support, as do me and DH), they asked SEYS to start the process, she reluctantly agreed. The next day SEYS tell us that they are going into private nursery this week and nxt wk to do 1 hr 1-2-1 with DS, and will then review if they will start Stat assess. We feel they will say no as their current stance in 'wait and see'. We have concerns about this, and spoke to headteacher again yest who agrees with our concerns. Their 1-2-1- work with DS will be on 6th april. Term finished on 8th april. SEYS only work term time only. Have spoken to parent partnership who have advised us to request stat assess ourselves, if SEYS won't as we have nothing to lose if it is refused.
The general consensus from all professionals is that parental requests for stat assess are generally refused in our borough, despite supporting evidence. Our referral will go back to SEYS to complete the paperwork, and if they won't start the process themselves they are very unlikely to offer supporting evidence.
I'm sure that SEYS reluctance is down to politics, money, time, workloads etc. If they say they won't start the stat assess process on April 6th then we will definately put in a parental request and DH and I will draft our letter during the next week so it is ready to go in, dated 6/7th April. School are offering support with this, and I will use parent partnership and IPSEA, but can anyone offer any advice?
DS has dx of ASD, delayed development, delayed speeech, some behaviour issues, not toilet trained yet, lack of understanding with receptive language, does not interact with other children, how can they say he does not need extra support?
Any advice what we should include and how to get around lack of support from SEYS? Anyone been in a similar position?
Sorry, long winded-thanks for reading if you get this far!