Hi
Today we have had a dx of Aspergers pending ADOS assessment for my ds who is 11 in April and have been advised to start the statementing process.
We are also in the process of secondary school allocations and have got the option of two places which were our 2nd & 3rd choices, the 3rd has a unit for aspergers but when we looked round we didnt like the school for various reasons more especially as it wasnt academic enough and their results are terrible.
Before today I was going to appeal to our 1st choice (it has a aspergers unit but is out of catchment and DS would have to travel by bus to get there) but accept the place at our 2nd choice appending the appeal. Now we have been advised to take another look at the one with the unit.
This has thrown me into turmoil as I know DS would benefit from the local unit whilst he is settling down in transition but feel he could become to rely on it too often and would not forfil his potential academically.
I want the 1st choice as he has strong bonds with friends made at sport groups he attends and it also has better sporting facilities which he excels at and the results are better.
I know they will come back to me and say why are we sending him across the town on a bus which will only make his anxiety worse!
I would be grateful for any advice anyone could give me who has completed secondary transition and had to appeal as I need some guidance on reasons why I can use the aspergers case to get the school we want without it being detrimental.
Also pointers on how to get throught the statementing process!
Thank you if you have got this far and understand what I am after lol!