Filling in a CCC-2 communication checklist for my DS1.
He is now 9 and is reasonably well settled at school as has a group of friends who are on the ASD spectrum so most of the time lots of the things that they talk about do not surface. And at home we increasingly let him focus on his love of computer gadgets and games so he is reasonably well behaved.
So do I focus on how he is now, at his best or do I think about how he is when he starts a new year at school, he is out in the world experiencing new things without a gadget to fall back on. My friend whose son has ASD says paint the worst possible picture.
I feel conflicted by the whole thing - not sure what I am trying to achieve.