Poor dd :-(

[Blossomhowl]

Feel so, so sorry for her at times.

Hate saying this but ds is a very popular, sociable boy and gets lots of invites to parties and to tea etc.

I have just had dd in floods of tears as ds has received yet another invitation, this time for a halloween party. Dd said who is this for? Is it for me? When I told her no her little face crumpled. Dd has just been sobbing her heart out saying it's not fair, and it isn't is it?

She does go to parties but rarely for tea or things like that. I just feel realy sorry for dd today It's just not fair!!!!!!!

So sorry to hear this Blossom. Bless her. She's such a special little lady

Oh Blossomhowl, how very sad. I wish I could invite your dd round here for tea. My ds would love a pal, even though she's a girlie

ohhhhh bless her, ohhh no wonder you feel sad.
Can you arrange a little tea party for 1 or 2 of her school friends round at your for the night DS is out?

Could you have a halloween party for her?

Blossom i know precisly how you feel. my DS has never been invited to anything.
he was even missed out of a party thrown for my x DP's cousin who is a year older than DS.

it really p*sses me off that adults can be so insensetive. i know he is a hard work and eh would get really over excited but its not like i would leave him there alone.

thankfully he doesnt realise about parties and things yet. it makes me almost cry when i see the odd child in his class talk to him every now and then. i know he will never be the most popular kid in school because of his behaviour issues but it would be so nice for him to have at least one freind.
he really does long to play with the other kids at school.

anyway, as teh others have said maybe you could throw a little tea party for her so that she feels special.

oh blossom, it breaks your heart at times
her time will come bless her cotton socks

Thanks everyone You all cheer me up so much!

Wouldn't it be great if we all lived near each other and we could do things like tea!

Just feel as though I have a constant reminder of how hard things are with dd because of ds (not his fault, bless him).

I just wish that dd had one special friend. I know she isn't going to have loads of friends and that is down to her and how she is and what she feels comfortable with. However 1 friend would be nice.

I agree with aloha. Have your own party BH!
How about having the gang from the Language Unit? Judging from what a lot of posters on here are saying,you would also delight the parents!

Sorry to hear this BH, bet your heart melted for her

The others are right though....have your own little party and make it extra special for her