I think the age at which we diagnose and the hopeless, patronising bunch of substandard services we are offered (too late) are nothing short of scandalous. If it were a physical health issue, and our services lagged so far behind America that kids were actually dying, there would be an outcry. But because autism is the invisible disability, no-one gives a shit.
If one more council professional tells me that ABA will "harm my family life" or that it's "very intensive you know" (said darkly, as if somehow by taking on an ABA tutor I'll be harming my child) I will scream. ABA works: there is proper, clinical research to prove that. Even the most ardent proponents of TEACCH will admit that it has no research backing it up. My theory is that, because TEACCH works a bit with HF autistic kids, and because ABA often takes on and tackles kids at the more severe end, it has become a truism that ABA is only good for severe kids.
The truth is that hf kids like my DSD would thrive with ALMOST ANY intervention - because her speech and IQ were pretty good to start with. So TEACCH just steps in and takes the credit.
As a result, we bumble along in this country with our little TEACCH theories, and our "lovely, caring SEN staff" and assume that the more severe kids (like my DS) were "never going to amount to much anyway, so let's just shove them in a home". Whereas ABA says - no, every kid can improve using our techniques. I truly believe my son would never have spoken a single word without ABA; I also believe he would now be beating me up and still in nappies.
Sorry to rant, but it makes me very sad. I met a mum in the street the other day whose kid will now never speak because she was told ABA was the devil's work. She thinks his TEACCH unit is "lovely", and takes their word for it that really he was never going to talk, so it's all fine.
Sorry to go on, but that makes me ANGRY! That is a kid who has, by the education system itself, been condemned to an insitutionalised life. Maybe he wasn't ever going to speak well, but didn't he deserve a chance at least, with a system like ABA which has been found to get results? The prejudice against ABA totally mystifies me. Any council workers out there who can tell me why they all hate it?