Thanks for your replies.
Agnes, I will look again at CoP and Ed act.
Home Ed is not an option for me.
There are no other schools in the area with provision.
I'm not sure how to get them to name another school in Part 4 as there aren't any more in county so our only option is residential, which they are resisting due to costs.
CAMHS are involved, but apart from a disastorous attempt at meds for anxiety they have nothing to offer that we haven't already tried.
Bigcar, I have had 3 emergency review meetings, multi agency. At first I was pleased to get such a response, but its really just been a paper shuffling excercise for them..
I'm at this point now because I have written to our SEN manager, Inclusion Officer and head of SS to say that we are not coping and they had meeting no. 3 yesterday (in my absence, I couldn't get there because she was off school again), and came up with an action plan that made me cry, because its FULL OF ALL THE THINGS WE'VE ALREADY TRIED! Its so frustrating.
They now are talking about a Complex Needs Meeting, but the Inclusion Officer is off for two weeks and I get the feeling they'd like to keep this up ( all talk no action) for EVER.
I think I need some legal advise, to see what the law says about school refusal and the LA's responsibilities. Trouble is I'm skint.
Sorry to be so down, its just that I've had to give everything up in the last year to become a full time carer and its getting me down not having a life. She's a lovlely little girl and does really try hard to'be good' but its all too much for her and she just wants to spend all her time at home, which is frustrating for me and detrimantal to our relationship...:(