DD2,who has isolated speech delay & is non-verbal & also has mobility problems,is attending a pre-school we chose for her.Her statement is sorted & she has 15 hours one to one,which is great.
We took a while to pick a good MS primary school for her which she will start at in September.The school organise a group called 'Rising Fives' which is 2 afternoons a week,for the pre-school children to attend,to get them used to the school & the children they will be going to school with.
There are approx 25 children in the group with 3 staff,I decided to send dd2 for 1 of the sessions even though she did not have a one to one there.They are aware of her special needs,but on most occasions she comes out with her pull-ups(she is still in nappies)hanging down & when she had a cold,she had dried snot all over her facewith her hair all stuck to it.Then last week,my Mum picked her up & 2 girls from the group brought her out,saying she had fell over,but they had looked after her,she was crying & covered in mud,but ok.
How do I tackle these issues without coming across as a moaning Mum,I know she doesn't have a one to one,but thought they would keep an extra eye on her,is that unreasonable??