DS has a speech delay (currently in a special language unit in a nursery) and has poor social skills. It is very difficult to understand him and he struggles to put his ideas across. He is OK when one-on-one (we are very patient with him and know his special language) but completely shuts down when in a large group. He becomes ever so quiet and doesn't participate in songs/stories/etc. It's as if he 'melts' in the carpet. He doesn't disturb anyone, he just becomes 'invisible'.
Everything else is OK with him, eye contact, motor skills etc. He's quite bright with anything like numbers letters shapes etc.
He was assessed yesterday by a pedeatrician and she mentionned that he might need a statement when he starts school depending on his progress. I really didn't think he would need that, I just thought it's his personality. But if it's offered/pushed by his school (he is starting reception in Sept in a standard local CoE school) should we go for it? Are there any dissavantages to having a statement for such a low level needs? Obviously we would like him to get all the help available, but is there a downside? Many thanks!