Called up for a word in playground, on hearing concerns asked teacher for privacy.
My son is diagnosed Aspergers & significant speech disorder. On Assisted support plan level 4 (Scotland)(statutory support level).
He hit another child to the ground, big push apparently. He wrote pretty shocking message to another child in his group on a whiteboard.
He is, as said, almost 7, never hit another child in school / nursery setting. Did kick & heatbutt staff in council nursery when 3/4 yrs old before diagnosis. Changed nursery & things improved, now about 18 months into formal education, two schools(first chosen for small size but journey there & back with now diagnosed autistic child non-viable) (primary) & no further violence to others (aside me).
Feel awful, have been cajoling him into school repeating lately 'soon be holidays' & feel if I had just recognised his angst & kept him off for a few days he wouldn't have kicked off at other child.
The whiteboard writing seems to be in response to provocation, seperate incident & child to the 'pushing' incident.
Have to note he has been subject to bullying himself by others groups of children, involving physical violence.
It all kicks off again.... school I am sure get extra funds for my child's diagnosis & level of need yet he has been failed for it to reach this level. (His class teacher hadn't even been informed of diagnosis at start of school year (I did let my disappointment be known) & now my son is no longer passive...
Teacher noted a problem Friday, & since problem has escalated as detailed, told me today, Wednesday.
Had I been told Friday things might have been contained.
She'd never heard of a home/school book when I brought it up.
Answers to cope with stress. Or I may just go insane... again!