"I have been told by both the clinical psychologist and the LSA who have assessed her that the ONLY person who can DIAGNOSE dyslexia is the Ed Psych....."
LSA - what does that acronym stand for?. I think I know but I don't want to be wrong here. They are both misleading you. As said before EP cannot make any official medical diagnosis and can only comment on educational needs.
"We are trudging down the statementing route! have recently been turned down for SA...did however manage to scare LEA and school have miraculously suddenly found funding to provide her with 3X weekly 1:1 support as suggested by LSA report...was going to appeal against refusal of SA...but due to timeframes I have decided not to"
What timeframes are we talking about here?.
No, you need to appeal. How recently as well were you turned down?. Turning down people is the LEAs usual way here initially, you have to appeal immediately and show them you mean business. You are your child's best - and only - advocate after all.
"to allow Ed Pysch report first, and a trial of the 1:1 sessions, but am already planning and gathering eveidence to re-apply in 4 weeks or so....
oh and OT did see her, not much use really, no follow up planned...sigh"
On what grounds did they refuse to assess initially?. Her 1 to 1 sessions can all too easily get pulled earlier.
Certainly go into school Monday, see the SENCO and or Head Teacher and insist on answers.