Hi ladies
I wonder if i can mull something over with you all.
DS (18m) is very likely on the autistic spectrum (no diagnosis yet,but the Early Intervention Team have told us he is "very typical" of a child with autism) he has GDD and a (as yet) undiagnosed chromosomal abnormality. The SALT has told us she anticipates him needing to use alternative communication methods for some time to come, i.e until at least when he goes to school.
We have been invited to a whole load of courses (e.g. DH has just started Earlybird)and we went to the introduction to PECS yesterday. I was really looking forward to it, as i thought it would be a great tool to use. However, to my surprise, i began to feel more and more aprehensive the more i heard. I started to feel that it was just about "training" (their word) the child, and not about facilitating communication. I know it is a very behavioural approach, but i felt the children seemed more like they were "performing" due to being given sweets / chocolates etc, rather than initiating anything themselves. It didn't help that we were shown a very old american video!
Anyhow, i'd just love to get the opinions of anyone with experience of PECS. I hear it gets great results, and i'd really like to hear any positive stories - i'm quite happy to have my feelings changed 
I obviously want to do the best for DS, and so if this would be a good thing for him, then i'd be happy to set aside my own reservations.
All thoughts and opinions welcomed 