DD2 (7) is currently being assessed for ASD, SPD and I suspect OCD. Every time I look at her at the moment she has her socks off and is picking her toe nails. She's got them so short that they bleed and she finds it painful to put her shoes on.
When I see her doing it I hold her hands and try to distract her but it doesn't often work. Dh tells her to stop and tells her off if she doesn't obey which of course she can't.
If we're out or she's at school and isn't allowed to take her shoes off she picks her finger nails instead and they are nearly as bad but not bleeding as yet.
Any suggestions for how I can help her not to do it/discourage her?
She has lots of other little things she has to do like touching things four times and evening up touches so both sides of her body match.