Hello, this is my first time on the SN board. I have a 13 week old boy who may have a chromosome disorder. We've just had a referral to a paediatrician and expect they will recommend genetic tests.
I've been reading this thread to prepare myself with what to expect from the process, and would appreciate any advice anyone can give...
DS is so young still, it's impossible to say if he has delays of any kind. He was born 2 weeks late but healthy at 7lb 6oz, apgars 10, and only had tongue tie (now snipped) and mild hypospadias (which we have a December referral for).
He was a very calm and sleepy baby, didn't wake up for ages...just fed and slept. No problems with BFing and gaining weight well. Smiled at 6 weeks and is starting to play on his playmat and interact a bit more, cooing etc...
I hope you don't mind if I list our concerns, I'd really appreciate if anyone recognises these as signs or symptoms of a particular disorder. I've read so many of the Unique leaflets my head is spinning:
- hypospadias
- plagiocephaly and torticollis
- two 'inconclusive' hearing tests although he responds to sound (back for an ABR on Tues)
- mild dysmorphic features (small almond shaped eyes - although I also have these, and small ears that you might argue are borderline low set, small mouth and chin, but not overly so...)
- possibly a slightly floppy larynx (osteopath noticed it)
I don't know how to get through these weeks, months (and potentially years) of not knowing... Has anyone experienced having a child with a number of symptoms that turned out to be nothing? Or is it more likely a given that there's something chromosomal going on here?
When our GP made the referral, he said he was doing it for two reasons. 1) the plagiocephaly and torticollis needs looking at, physio etc and 2) because we're worried and need to be reassured by someone more qualified than him.
A private paediatrician saw him yesterday (because I'm going mad waiting for NHS referral) and agreed he needs further investigation, if only to rule things out.
I am suspicious of the language used by my GP and the paediatrician we saw yesterday. I am sure they are convinced DS has a chromosomal problem but just can't say as much until we see a geneticist.
Sorry, this was very long. I am so exhausted by it all already. And have a toddler to look after at the same time who I am trying to maintain normality for. I want to enjoy my new baby but right now I feel like I'm in the pit of despair.