Brekky: Porridge, Banana, Cereal (no additives), milk, diluted apple juice, smoothy, bacon sarny, boiled egg and buttered soldiers....
Lunch: Sarny (no processed meats) usually tuna, chicken, cheese. Soups - there are loads with no artificial ingredients, fruit, olives/humous ......
Dinner: All home made from scratch I'm afraid but my slow cooker has been one of the best kitchen items I've ever bought. It allows me to use all raw, natural ingredients and not have to spend ages preparing and cooking. ( I buy organic when possible, although this is an expensive option). Baked fish, potatoes, veg, although he's not a great fan of anything green
Homemade currys & pastas (you can buy sauces with nothing nasty in them). Chicken with wholegrain rice and sweetcorn, stir fry. Tonight we're having spag bol, using a 'good' sauce.
M&S have worked with the Hyperactive Children's Society for a few years and a majority of their foods are additive free. Sainsbury's are similar and Tescos are 'getting there'. There is some research into eliminating foods that contain wheat, eggs and dairy from their diet to see if it helps. I haven't been brave or desperate enough to do this yet. Have you looked at the amount 'constructive' exercise he's getting? We've worked on that area too and it's made a difference for him. Hope this helps 