This has really pissed me off tell me if I'm over reacting?

[Kesha321]

It's really bad when you think to put a notice up in facebook saying!!
DO NOT COME TO MY HOUSE UNEXPECTED AS MY SON WILL ATTACK YOU BEWARE OF THE BOY!!!

I'm really considering telling all my friends to make sure they give me 2 hours notice at least before they turn up, the other day my friend came again unexpected and this turned my son (Asd) crazy hitting her tantrums throwing stuff! But I felt so angry not at him at her like why can't you just understand you can't just turn up!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's so annoying now even though he is diagnosed Shez like nah his normal my cousins friends aunts best friend mate Paul had a daughter who picked his skin it's normal,oh he can't be autistic he hugged me before,oh it's nothing he can't talk my mates little girl never spoke till I was four,oh it's fine he is not sociable neither are you,oh he climbs and jumps from heights his just having fun! I'm not sure if she is trying to reassure me that he is fine or actually being completely ignorant?? She then ended it in on oh maybe I should pick my skin and I'll get Dla,that made me feel totally sick!!!

Think I'm going to loose a friend..

[5inthebed]

Kesha that was the edited version. I don't usually swear, but I hate ignorant people, especially when it coems to our DC.

[mariamagdalena]

Your friend has lots of brothers and sisters... so she can find someone to give her a bed for the night. Not being horrid to her, but this is about you and your ds. She needs to know that, right now, you barely have the emotional energy for yourself, and anyone who can't help will have to fend for themselves for a bit. And longer term, she'll have to learn about your ds and be there for you. It sounds like she really needs to grow up a lot before she's ready to be the friend you need.

And good on you being 'only' 23, you'll have the energy and fitness that will help you and your lovely son to flourish. Personally, I think having no kids, no problems and nothing to do on a Friday night but go out and get p***d is boring, so stop being so down on yourself. Agree with purple, you need some new mates. Is there an ASD parent support group anywhere near you? Ours is great, I always have a laugh and come out feeling so much better than I did when I went in.

[mariamagdalena]

of course you could always give your ds a smartie every time he hits her and wait till she gets the message [evil grin emoticon]

[Kesha321]

Loooool this forum is so much different to netmums everyone is just so real and down to earth!! Think I'll stay here and your right I am 23 but have the mind of a 60 year old infact i prefare my 56 year old moms company to anyone even though she struggles to understand autism she has a dont spare the rod and spoil the child parenting skill loool but she trys and that's all I want from anyone who don't understand! Well today I'm going to check out our local childrens centre and see what it has to offer can't wait to meet some moms who's idea of a Good time is to go Starbucks and have a coffee,who know when it's time to go and find the fact my son said to a random person "why do you smell so bad" funny!! People who understand all I have to talk about kids and that talking about having sex in random car parks does not impress nor entertain me! Woooo,bring on my mommy friends xx

[pinkstarlight]

it could be she just dug herself a bigger and bigger hole,but there was no need for the comment about dla was a totally horrible thing to say.you have enough going on without friends like that draining your energy,do you really need her friendship.