I found a SpLD (dyslexia) report done on her 6 months ago:
Classroom Observation
I observed DD for the start of her maths lesson. She came into the room sucking her thumb. The teacher started to get the attention of the class by giving simple instructions e.g. put your hands on your head. DD was the only student in the class who did not follow the instructions. She then needed a further prompt from the teaching assistant at her table to get her whiteboard out.
Views of the child
DD identified her strengths in school as maths, although she said she was qutie slow. When I asked if there was anything she found difficult she replied that she does not always understand what to do and admitted that she does not always listen. At home she enjoys imagining things.
Screams out ADD-PI to me (now I know what it is :) ) Hopefully the paed will accept this as evidence that she has had this for at least 6 months.
And if the EP assesment done this term looks for at, then by the time we see the paed we will have 2 diff reports, 6 months apart, saying the same thing.
I can't believe the SpLD team didn't spot it. They have been particularly rubbish.
(Given they also said she was a bright, articulate girl, and they couldn't explain why she couldn't read)
I honestly don't know why nobody has picked up on this before. She does not cover it up. She does not have periods of hyper focus. She basically just sits at the back of the class and daydreams. She has made no progress at all in school. She is in Y3 but is doing Reception level work....
Anyway, now I know what's happening. I can start to try different things with her even without a dx.
Thanks for all your help.