I think the benefits now shop is the cheapest.
We have the same issue as mrsmagnolia, Dd3 doesn't want me to buy a set becasue she doesn't want to be different.
Having said that her use of cutlery has improved lately as I have been saying if she doesn't practice hard I will be buying a set.
Most food is eaten with fingers, including I saw the other day Spaghetti bolagnese[sp?]
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