Hello everyone :)
First of all a huge thankyou to all of you who helped me word the letter to request an assessment for my DS. The inclusion manager today commented that 'it was the most comprehensive report' that she had ever seen from a parent
. She didn't feel the need to change any of the content either, so I can't thank you all enough
passes huge box of chocs around for all
However, she told me that she had spoken to a lady from the local education authority who has been involved with DS, and had been told something that could affect the outcome of the Statement. Apparently, it is now the case that I have to prove why DS would be of benefit attending the school that I want marked down in his Statement. It isn't enough for me to just want him to go there, but I have to make clear why I want that school over any other.
I mentioned using the approach of DS having difficulty adjusting to new surroundings and that it would be too emotional for him to be put in a different primary school. We live too far away from the nursery he is in now for it to be based on distance. DS even had a staggered entry into nursery because he found it too distressing to leave me at the start of each session having never been in childcare before, and so went from attending 1 morning a week for a fotnight, to three mornings over a week, and is now attending his 15 hours entitlement, spread over 5 mornings a week.
She said although we could use that approach, he has shown he can settle in a new environment, as it was one of the targets that he has met on his CAF, and the EA would say that he would be able to settle elsewhere once again.
I realise I have waffled, but I really can't get my head around this whole process. I love the school for a number of reasons. The staff- SENCO, Inclusion Manager, Headmistress etc have all gone beyond the call of duty in trying to get DS into nursery without waiting for the outcome of his funding application. They have been so kind, caring and reassuring. DS is happy there. He has shown a whole new independence that I have never seen in him before.
The reception class and nursery are side by side, so I feel from that point of view, the transition from the two classes will provide the least amount of distress for DS. They even share the same playground, so for DS, it will be the most minimal of changes.
18 of the families who applied for places last year ended up appealing as the school is oversubscribed. It is a school that has a fantastic reputation for it's inclusion policies, and I want DS to be a part of that, but how can I prove it?