I've posted before, but am anxious again to get Mumsnetters advice on the 'unknown knowns' I'm about to run into, especially since time is of the essence.
DS1 (3.2) has a speech delay with symptoms consistent with dyspraxia. We are lucky in that otherwise he is normal, and indeed has a comparatively large amount of intelligible speech. He has been under SaLTs for about four months.
On Monday he was referred by our GP for an ENT outpatients' appointment, and on Wednesday underwent mild suction to clear his outer ear. We have been given drops/olive oil and told to return in two months for more suction and a consultant appointment. One of the shocking things to come out of all of this was that all doctors concerned believe that, even if just due to packed wax, DS must have very impaired hearing, yet his behaviour is normal. In other words, I'm pretty sure his hearing range must be well below normal on a consistent basis.
What should I be looking for/demanding at the next hearing test? The first noted 'normal range and glue ear', but also that he was 'shy' (which I think may have been used to explain some non-responses). Is it worth getting both SaLTs to write to the consultant ahead of that appointment?
Second, sounds awful, but I know the SaLTs are in minor disagreement over the diagnosis-definitely disordered, but one says 'dyspraxia' the other only that that is a 'possibility'. Much in my son's speech-attention to very precise vocab, difficulties in hearing and correcting soundsbut not in the forced production of them-seems to me very consistent with simple deafness (although probably given it's been like that for half his life at least now some processing hassles as well). Is it worth raising and revisiting the original diagnosis with them on the basis of the new 'ear information'?