I've been waiting for the paed's dx report for ds before sending off our application for Statutory Assessment, with the foolish thought that it would give us back-up for our request.
It basically says ds is "only just" on the autistic spectrum, and that he will be just fine and dandy with support from nursery/school staff with "advice from Autism Partnership if requested by the school".
FFS. After spending 4 hours with ds (who was on pretty good behaviour that day), seeing virtually nothing of his real tantrums, aggression, rigidity, repetition, and of course nothing of his total lack of interaction with any of his peers at nursery, etc etc etc (you all know the drill), this paed can basically tell us (and the LA) that he will not need any support from outside the school.
Perhaps he would have liked to see it today when ds followed me round the room spitting on me for 15 minutes because I told him he couldn't have a 5th satsuma, then when I had to take myself and DD into the playpen for safety because he was lashing out so badly.
Thank fuck we can afford (for now) to do ABA but where the hell will it leave us in a year's time when ds starts primary school??
I am so gutted and so angry. The application now will basically rest on my statement, and how can I prove it?
Sorry for the rant.