As far as we are concerned there is nothing wrong with your DD2!

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Had a word with preschool today about DD2 as gettinglittle feedback from them this half term. They told me she has her 5 hours 1-1 a week but frankly doesnt need it, they dont see any of her difficulties and as far as they can see there is nothing wrong with her. So me, the SNHV and SALT are all wrong. The thing is I know that come the CDAC appointment if they say this im buggered.
I stood and watched and yes she did go and join the others at the puzzle table but didnt talk to them or look at them, yes she spoke to a staff memeber but only to get her own needs met, and I have neverseen her playing with another child while there.

I want to call someone, do something. I now feel like I have make it all up, there is nothing wrong with her and I have labelled my child when no need.
God I feel like crying right now :(

So glad you had good feedback from the SALT. It makes you feel good doesn't it when someone else sees the issues too.
We had a good meeting with the new paed this morning and got a referal to camhs and OT.
I hope the preschool sit up and listen now.[hsmile].

have you got anyone backing you up leonie? Im lucky as have 2 wonderful speech therapist and a great specialist pre school

have they not been to see her anywhere else?? Surely they need to be doing more and observing her in school/nursery ect? Both the girls have had SALT assessor into school plus observation by health team. I hope it goes well for you. Best thing I ever had was a diary which i kept for 4 months before appointment, then just before appoinmtent went though each day and highlighted in pen anything that suggested ASD, worked well and pead could see it clearly.