LD nurse came out today, and observed DD1 (4.9, brain malformation, attends special school) climbing quite unrelentlessly.
We have always known she was hyperactive, and this is documented throughout reports. However, I suspect that the LD nurse maybe thought that some of it was down to lack of stimulation/overstimulation etc, at home
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We have been seeing him for around a year, and during that time, DD1 has been through the SA process, had reports stating 1:1, danger to self, etc. DD1 has just been uprated to HRC/HRM with DLA, from HRC no Mobility.
Today, he asked if we had ever done the connors rating scale. We haven't. He wants to observe her in her special school to see if 'there are any things they do with her that you could do' and 'if she is the same at school as at home'
read: "to see if it's all your fault!"
We are consistent and firm at home. Her 2 younger sisters are coming on beautifully as they develop, and preschool have no concerns whatsoever with the 3 year old. Her 18 month old sister will sit nicely in a group situation, sing songs, etc., and sit nicely to read a book etc.
Does anyone have experience? What happens if school environment helps to calm her slightly, would the ADD/ADHD traits still be confirmed? ie. is it more than bouncing off the walls that they look for?