tiredmummy DD1 has a brain malformation, cortical dysplasia, with epilepsy and GDD.
We were very fortunate that the preschool picked up DD1's problems - all my concerns had been dismissed by HVs, and although I did have concerns, by the time she got to preschool, I had resolved that she was just 'active'.
Preschool noticed her walking (she didn't walk 'til 23 months, and started preschool at 2.6) but I pointed out that she only started walking 7 months earlier.
They got her observed, and started full 1:1. Then she started falling over for no reason, got fast-tracked to the hospital and dx with epilepsy, then MRI showed the malformation.
I requested a statutory assessment, made my parental advice very thorough, very specific, but stated that if they could keep her safe, then I would consider mainstream, but it would have to be 1:1 support from the moment she arrived to the moment she left. The LA chose Special School.
Star is right, I think. I had already visited the Special school, so once I saw that, and talked to them, I could see that they would do whatever DD1 needed. So I didn't have to bother at all with what was in the statement itself, really. having the place was enough.
If she had a MS statement, I would have had to pin it all down, make sure it was quantified, specified, no wriggle room.