I thought DLA was based on care needs not dx?
How does DDs IQ have anything to do with her anxiety/self care needs..?
Since when is 'eccentric language' in AS the same as Semantic Pragmatic Disorder?
Whats 'further qualification' needed if dx is ASD?...a dx we may be stuck with.
Apparently a they need to see our SEN...'which school-age children should have'! 
Is it ok to describe DSs with autism as 'children with Autism and mental retardation'?...or AIBU?
I am approaching my DLA form from the decision makers point of view so I read the DWP Disability Handbook, chapter 37 Autism and Aspergers. It doesnt mention sensory issues, anxiety/depression, meltdowns...it says 'tantrum', irrational fears or the ability to mask anxiety...like how DD appears ok at school but shows shes not at home. Its very vague, doesnt even mention the 'triad' properly. :( ...I think our application will have lots of extra information in.
www.dwp.gov.uk/publications/specialist-guides/medical-conditions/the-disability-handbook/