Currently going through the statementing process with DS1 (ASD). He's 3.5 and we will be applying for primary schools this autumn. We will hear whether or not we are going to get a draft statement within the week - based on what I've been told already we are very likely to get a statement but obviously will have a battle about the wording. He needs one-to-one assistance and OT and SALT at least once a week (and ideally more often).
The SALT report is a disaster as she has only recommended 5 contacts within the first term and then once a term after that (and that includes meetings, training with teachers so not a lot of actual speech therapy). In addition, she has clearly pasted in these recommendations from another child's report as it has his name in it and not DS1s
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I am having serious doubts about where to send him to school. I realise that we don't have to name the school until right at the end of the statement process but obviously we need to think about it now. We have been told that he will cope in mainstream, and I'm sure he will, but I am worried that he won't reach his potential there. He appears (to us at least) that he's actually pretty bright but that he will struggle because he has severe communication problems and lots of co-ordination problems. He also has quite a few sensory issues. I am starting to wonder whether we should push for a more specialised school.
There is a school near us with a speech and language unit attached but we've been told informally that they wouldn't accept him as he has more than just communication problems. They seem to take children who only have communication disorders but are otherwise fine. There are special ASD schools in our area but my impression is that they take children with more severe LDs which I don't think he has. (Admittedly I haven't been to see these schools yet). I had been looking at another type of school run by ICAN in Surrey which on paper looks ideal but it would cost the LEA a whopping £30k a year (plus transport costs). I am going to arrange to visit it but if it looks good, how on earth would I get the LEA to fund it? Have I got any chance of it happening????
I guess assuming we get one-to-one in the statement then they would be paying the salary of a TA at the least if he went into mainstream school. The ICAN school has OTs and SALTs on site so there wouldn't be any additional costs in relation to therapy.
Any thoughts/ideas welcome. I'm going round in circles a bit and I really don't want to start a hopeless fight.