Hi,
I was wondering if anyone had any advice they could offer me. My son has diagnoses of Asperger syndrome, ADHD and Tourettes, with significant fine motor difficulties but IQ measured in the 95th centile (so fairly bright!), and was diagnosed at various times with the various labels, but initially around the age of 5. He is now 12, and has just started senior school. Whilst at Primary School he kindof muddled along - he didn't do well, and his teachers couldn't understand why he didn't get any help, but the sencos in the schools he attended insisted his needs were not that great.
Anyway, as I say he has just started senior school, and they disagree very strongly! I have just had a meeting with the Senior School senco and she said that they want to apply for a Statement for him, and also suggested that mainstream school was probably not the best place for him, and that the LEA may well want to place him in a special school or a ASD unit. Now obviously I would be delighted if the LEA decide that A will get the support he needs and deserves, but I am a bit dubious about special school: predominately because I have a perception that whilst they undoubtedly could meet his ASD/social skill needs, I am worried that his academic needs will not be met.
However, I am not unmoveable on this, as really I just want what is best for A and (foolish though this may be) I do sort of trust that they wouldn't offer him an expensive place at a specialist unit unless they felt it was truly in his best interests. That said, I am also aware I can refuse a placement for him if I do not feel it is appropriate. So this is where I would really like some help: at what point of the statementing process will I need to know where I want him to go? Obviously I will want to visit the various options before I agree to it, but bearing in mind there is not guarantee he will get the statement (although the school seem pretty certain) at what point in the whole procedure will I be asked WHERE I want him to go?
Thanks for reading - sorry this got a bit long winded!