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bloody fed up

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sparky159 · 06/09/2010 22:47

i dont know what to think /feel really.
im a bit bloody angry though.
my daughter has a few dx[including autism]
but ive always had a gut feeling that all these things dont quite stand right.
i managed to have a stand up fight with her teacher over six months ago-cos the teacher was angrly saying-basically my daugher was winding the teacher up as she wouldnt do anything she said-and i was asking her what the fuck was wrong with her-she was supposed to be a special needs teacher but was too dim to realise that my daughter didnt know what she was on about!!!
i then went into a meeting a few weeks ago-
where it was said that a ot had said that my daughter has also vp disorder-[the teacher didnt appologise]
i havve now had a bit of paper chucked into my daughters bag saying about vp disorder.
apparently-this ot is seeing my daughter-and i dont even know her name-
to make matters even worse-my daughter has come home with nail polish all over her fingers-courtisy of the ot-
and to add to this-she also has had the ot brushing her hair and getting a boy to brush her hair!!!
i find this quite astounding-and im trying to calm down.
for a start-i dont allow my daughter nailpolish-
i would of thought it good manners for her to introduce herself and tell me what she would be doing-
i thought it would be good to get the parent into a sudden diagnosis-
and explain things-
obviously not-this is bollocks.

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TheCrunchyside · 06/09/2010 23:07

Hi sparky

Sounds like the communication is really crap at the school so not surprised you are wound up.

personally i wouldn't have a major problem with nailpolish i assume it is a fun way of making your dd do some hand/eye control exercise and hairbrushing sounds completely harmless.
But you totally should be given more information on what is happening
Can you ask for a meeting with the SENco?

lisad123isgoingcrazy · 06/09/2010 23:29

vp? sorry not up to speed on it all. It sucks the school didnt tell you, especially the OT!
I personally wouldnt have a problem with nail polish or haorbrushing either

roundthebend4 · 07/09/2010 02:01

The nail polish and hairbrushing np with

the lack of contact yes I would be bloody annoyed at any chance can call the ot

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